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Make a care-options discussion sheet for your appointment

Keep the proposed goal, alternatives, individual concerns and next decision together for a conversation with a qualified clinician.

MichaelT24 October 2026

Begin with the proposed decision

Record what the clinician is asking you to consider and which problem or goal the proposal addresses. Keep the person’s own priorities beside it: for example, understanding the purpose of a test or the practical impact of a proposed procedure. Do not select a treatment from a list of cosmetic or rehabilitation services. A service name alone cannot establish that it is appropriate for you.

Ask about meaningful alternatives

The NHS describes valid consent as an informed, voluntary decision. Ask the treating professional to explain the benefits, risks and reasonable alternatives relevant to you, including what waiting or not proceeding would mean where applicable. Request clarification of unfamiliar terms. This discussion concerns your actual circumstances; percentages from an advertisement are not a substitute for an individual explanation.

Check the practical consequences

Ask what preparation, recovery, support, costs or follow-up the proposed option would involve. Keep the provider’s actual instructions rather than reconstructing them from memory. If a recommendation changes, ask for clarification of the current plan. Leave medication, exercise, preparation and aftercare instructions to the clinical team; this sheet supplies questions rather than a clinical protocol.

Record the next decision honestly

Write down what has been explained, which question remains unanswered and who will answer it. Ask for information in a format you can understand and appropriate assistance if needed. A booked consultation is not consent to every procedure discussed. Take time and support appropriate to the actual decision, and use the relevant urgent-care route when symptoms require it.

Four parts of an informed discussion: The goal, alternatives and personal concerns inform a discussion. An unanswered question stays open rather than becoming consent.
Original MichaelT explanatory drawing. The goal, alternatives and personal concerns inform a discussion. An unanswered question stays open rather than becoming consent. Open full-size drawing ↗
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The goal, alternatives and personal concerns inform a discussion. An unanswered question stays open rather than becoming consent.

Work through an example

In a fictional dental consultation, option A is proposed but its goal and alternatives have not yet been explained. The person asks for those explanations and for the expected follow-up arrangements. The record therefore says discussion incomplete, rather than option accepted. No diagnosis, procedure, benefit estimate or recommendation for a real patient appears in the example.

Illustrative example; figures, people and organisations in the worked record are fictional.

The example record

  • Decision

    Evidence
    Option A proposed
    Next question
    What goal does it address?
  • Alternatives

    Evidence
    Explanation requested
    Next question
    What are the relevant choices?
  • Practical impact

    Evidence
    Follow-up unanswered
    Next question
    What support would be needed?
  • Next step

    Evidence
    Discussion incomplete
    Next question
    Who answers the open question?

Download blank worksheet (.csv) ↗Download worked example (.csv) ↗

Keep your own record

Use the result within its scope

Bring the questions to the treating team. An organised discussion record supports understanding; it cannot determine capacity, replace clinical consent procedures or establish which treatment is best for an individual.

Reference sources

Earlier articles on this subject

Continue with a related task

Prepare a child’s first dental-visit questions

Add the child’s communication needs and the purpose of the first appointment without copying treatment promises from a clinic advertisement.

Child and dental professional in the source clinic photograph
Original source photograph linked by the earlier child-dental article. It is not a new MichaelT consultation, a clinical result or an assessment of the fictional first-visit example. Image source ↗

Use current public guidance for timing

NHS children’s-teeth guidance advises an initial dental visit when the first milk teeth appear, or before twelve months, and subsequent check-ups as the dentist advises. Keep that named guidance and its context rather than the earlier source’s unsupported choice between one and three years. If there is pain, an injury or another concern, seek appropriate timely clinical advice rather than waiting for a routine visit.

Ask what the appointment actually includes

Confirm the relevant service, access arrangements and what the parent or carer should bring. Explain communication or support needs privately through the clinic’s advised route. Ask how the child will be introduced to the setting and how the professional explains an examination. A first appointment is not permission for every procedure a general services page lists.

Keep observations and recommendations separate

Bring relevant observations and questions without diagnosing a dark mark, a habit or a tooth’s position yourself. Ask the dentist which next step and individual instructions apply. Do not buy a restrictive device, change a child’s routine or select orthodontic treatment from a marketing article. Record the actual explanation and the question that remains unanswered using the existing care-options method.

An introduction is not every procedure: The fictional first-visit plan prepares access and questions. It does not diagnose a child or accept every treatment listed by a clinic.
Original MichaelT explanatory drawing. The fictional first-visit plan prepares access and questions. It does not diagnose a child or accept every treatment listed by a clinic. Open full-size drawing ↗
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The fictional first-visit plan prepares access and questions. It does not diagnose a child or accept every treatment listed by a clinic.

Work through an example

A fictional family confirms the first-visit service and privately asks about the child’s communication needs. The parent brings a question about a noticed habit without labelling it a diagnosis or buying a corrective product. The dentist’s actual assessment and recommendations remain future events; no child, tooth or treatment is evaluated here.

Illustrative example; figures, people and organisations in the worked record are fictional.

The example record

  • Timing

    Illustrative evidence
    Current NHS first-visit context
    Meaning or next step
    Concerns use appropriate timely advice
  • Access

    Illustrative evidence
    Actual clinic confirmation
    Meaning or next step
    Private communication needs
  • Observation

    Illustrative evidence
    Parent’s question
    Meaning or next step
    Not a diagnosis or device recommendation
  • Next step

    Illustrative evidence
    Dentist’s explanation awaited
    Meaning or next step
    No treatment already accepted

Download blank worksheet (.csv) ↗Download worked example (.csv) ↗

Keep your own record

Use the result within its scope

Use current local services and individual dental advice. This preparation record does not examine a child, prescribe toothpaste or devices, establish a diagnosis or promise that the visit will prevent every dental problem.

Reference sources

Earlier articles on this subject

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